free gathering
The DEATH Apprentice
A live, community conversation with Christa Ovenell, the Death Apprentice
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Co-led by:
Lauren Carroll & christa ovenell
june 9th at 12pm mountain time
held on Zoom
recording available
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Christa Ovenell
Christa Ovenell, Founder at Death’s Apprentice Education & Planning, was drawn to Deathcare work for decades, but given that she barely passed grade nine science class, a career in palliative nursing didn’t seem attainable. Every time she looked into becoming a funeral director, she realized she would have to give up her corner office, go back to school for two years, and literally become an apprentice (at nearly 50). That felt really scary and didn’t seem like a practical choice, but she couldn’t put it out of her mind.
Eventually, she decided that her life needed to include death in a radical way, and so she resigned from her job as Principal of Canada’s largest international college, left her position on the provincially appointed Council of Articulation and Transfer and applied to be a student at funeral school. She completed the gruelling apprenticeship at a large corporate funeral home. She’s now proud to work with a local, woman-owned & independent facility that is a leader in family-led and alternative death-caring practices.
Education is in her DNA: her mom was a lifelong teacher, her eldest is an academic and her niece and nephew work in schools too. We have a lot to learn as a society about death, because for too long we have been ok with denying its important lessons. She was initially very shy about admitting she was a 50-year-old apprentice, but now she knows that the “beginner’s mind” is one in which the best learnings can happen. She’s very proud to be an apprentice to life’s greatest teacher. The lessons she’s learning will continue right up till the day she dies.
Lauren Carroll
Lauren Carroll, co-founder of La Mort, is a Death Educator & Holistic Funeral Director who is passionate about weaving community and family back into the death space. Her work centers around re-aligning our culture with Mother Earth and helping humans remember how to love one another. She is a former board member for the National Home Funeral Alliance and co-founded The Deathwives. She lives on an urban farm at the base of a mountain where she tends to her animals, raises her two children, and dances around bonfires on the full moon with friends while listening to Nick Cave.
Our Teaching / Learning / Creating Style at La Mort
We leave behind the polished, gate-keepy approach to education. We teach in ways that carry story and experience. We listen. We laugh (a lot). We go off-script sometimes. We cry (with you)(for those you’ve loved)(for those we’ve loved). We like science and studies and logical frameworks, but also mysticism and poetry and all that stuff. We really love to honor history and those who came before. We move through some serious curricula, but don’t take anything too seriously. We dedicate ourselves to seeing you, and want you to feel seen. We deeply honor our intuition and yours. We lead with integrity (always). And we welcome the odd-balls and misfits, because it takes one to know one.